If You Don't Ask, You Don't Get A Date- Online Or Otherwise

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Hi, it's Julie!

Yay, I have two new photos and a new article for you called "If You Don't Ask, You Don't Get A Date- Online Or Otherwise" and it really does reveal the one big secret to success with online dating.

Here's Your First of Two Photos

You know, most men overthink attraction. They worry about their looks, their income, whether a woman likes them or not, whether they are worthy, or too tall or too fat or too thin. But you know why there are a lot of ugly guys with very attractive women? It's simply because they went and asked, willing to risk a no, but actually expecting a yes. And because most women are unasked, these guys got a yes and their friends want to know what their secret is. John covers it in his new article.


Women find the act of asking very attractive in and of itself, and often say yes because of that. But many say yes because they are unasked, really want a man to ask, and take the option offered.

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Enjoy, and stay tuned for tomorrow's photo, I think you'll really like her...


XOXO, Julie Young, Attraction Assistant to John Alanis

P.S. Be sure to scroll down so you can read John's newsletter update, If You Don't Ask, You Don't Get A Date- Online Or Otherwise

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If You Don't Ask, You Don't Get A Date- Online Or Otherwise

No matter how much culture changes, no matter how much technology advances, one thing will always remain the same- if you want a date, YOU are the one who has to ask. Women do not want to ask a man on a date. They want a man to take the lead, risk his ego, show he's interested and ask her on a date.

This has been a sticking point for men since time immemorial. Many just can't seem to ask a woman out. They may talk well, she may be interested, but when the time comes to ask to meet up, they just freeze up, and won't ask her out for a drink or a date. If this sounds frustrating to you as a man, just imagine how it feels to the poor girl- she has to wait for a guy to ask her for a date, and oftentimes none do.


This is why you see average, ugly guys with gorgeous women. Other men were afraid to ask her out, the average ugly guy was not, and because he was the only one, he got a date with a gorgeous woman. Sounds crazy, but it's true. This is good news for you, because if you can learn the skill of simply asking a woman out, you have a chance at finding a girlfriend other guys will envy. It's not hard, you just have to practice weaving it into the conversation, and you have to be OK with getting a NO sometimes.

Understand this: even if she says no, a woman is secretly happy you asked her. Even if she drags out the old "I have a boyfriend" chestnut, she is still happy you asked- and odds are there will be a time when she does not have a boyfriend, or simply changes her mind when you ask again.

Most guys have an unreasonable fear of the word NO from a woman. But what happens when a woman says NO? Nothing at all. You were right where you were before, and time and circumstance changes everything. Sometimes she just wants to see if you are really interested, will overcome her objection, and ask her again. Women often test men like this. Sometimes she's not interested in dating anyone at the moment, but will be in the future. And sometimes she just doesn't like the cut of your jib.

But even if you get a NO, you still win. You realize you are right where you were, you have the ability to ask a woman out, and the more you do it, the easier it gets. You will also be amazed at how many women say yes, and how many dates you get. You will also be amazed at how many gorgeous women say yes when you ask them on a date. And when you start talking to them, you'll be amazed by how often they are alone on a Saturday night simply because a guy won't ask them out on a date. Remember, women don't care about your looks, your age, your income, they care about how you make them feel inside, and often they are impressed by the mere act of asking.

So, your dating success is in your hands, online or otherwise. If you ask, sure you'll get a few no's, but you'll get some yes's to. If you never ask, you will always get a no, and you will never get a girlfriend, and I can't think of any worse fate than that. So go ahead and ask a woman on a date, you will be pleasantly surprised by what happens next.


Here's Your Second Photo

I really hope you enjoyed your two photos and this article, I will have more photos and another great article for you tomorrow to help you with women and online dating!

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