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Local Dating Is Where It's At- Still
Yes, it's fun to get on an Asian dating site or even a Russian dating site and chat with women all the way around the world. And it IS useful, because you can hone your attraction skills without fear of rejection. But if you want a fun, smart, cool woman to date, even a girlfriend or wife, local dating is where it's at- still.
Online dating is, of course, great for local dating. But don't forget about old fashioned ways about meeting women in person. Why? Because that's still the best way. You see, when you meet a woman online, whether it's through a regular dating site, or whether it's through a dating app like Tinder or Bumble, you still don't know if there will be any chemistry. Yes, you can talk to women on the phone and see if there's some there, but at the end of the day, you still have to meet in person to find out, and often there is not.
Some men are interested in just chatting with women online and texting. If that's the case, local dating is probably not for you. But if you want to meet a real woman in person (and what real man wouldn't), forget all the international dating sites, and focus on local dating sites. Besides, if you like Asian women or Russian women or Latinas, there are plenty on local dating sites, and you can actually meet them in person.
Even better, if you hit it off, you can invite her to come over to your place, and who knows, soon enough you may have a girlfriend. You simply cannot do that with international dating sites. With local dating, you can meet up on the spur of the moment, go out with friends, go to parties together, or just drink good wine when you are in the mood.
One benefit to dating sites nowadays, and especially to online dating apps such as Tinder or Bumble is they tell you how far away a woman really is. Obviously 20 miles isn't too bad, but hey, if you meet women five miles away, it's much easier to see them. You will be surprised how many are close to you on a local dating app.
Of course the ultimate "local dating site" is just to talk to women and meet them the old fashioned way close to you- at the gym, at church, even at the grocery store. I used to have a friend who was a master at picking up women at the grocery story- he'd walk up and down the wine section, looking for women who were by themselves, buying one cheap bottle of white wine. They were clearly lonely, and he did really well. Plus he introduced them to good wine, so there's that.
If you meet women locally, you know immediately if there is that elusive chemistry and so do they. You can just feel it, so you know that when you do meet up for a date, it will be there. It may not stay there, but it will be there, and that gives you a chance.
The other benefit of local dating is both you and her know the area, know the fun places to go, the cool places to go. You can go to a place where you both are comfortable, hang out and have a good time. You both probably also know something about the local history, vibe, and customs of your town or city, so that gives you something to connect on.
So while foreign and international dating sites can be fun to chat with women on, the truth is they are no substitute for the real thing. Local dating is still where it's at, and it probably always will be.
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