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Hi, it's Julie!

I have a new article for you from John, as well as two new photos. It's called "How To Have a Successful Date", and it tells you what to do and not do on a first date. John just wrote a new article, so I posted it below for you, along with two motivational photos.

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I have another bright, happy photo for you today.

Notice there's a theme in this photos? It's very important you choose a woman who'd naturally happy, else you will not have a happy relationship. That's one of the main things you should look for in a woman. But, no matter how happy she is, you have to know how to talk to her, and that's why John wrote his Kindle book, "How To Easily Talk to Any Woman." I highly suggest you read it now, that way when you meet a happy woman, you'll know what to say.

Knowing how to talk to women is very important, especially what not to say. The good news is, John reveals how to do that in How to Easily Talk To Women, and you can get your hands on it now. The good news is, you don't have own a Kindle to read it...Amazon will actually give you a free reading app you can use on your computer, smartphone, tablet, etc. to read any Kindle book. The link to download it is below:

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Enjoy, and stay tuned for tomorrow's photo, I think you'll really like her...


XOXO, Julie Young, Attraction Assistant to John Alanis

P.S. Be sure to scroll down so you can read John's newsletter update, How To Have a Successful Date

John Alanis, King Of Let Em' Come To You!

How To Have a Successful Date

If you're into online dating, you know it's really easy to meet women. It's easy to talk with them on the phone, it's easy to set up a date. After all, women go to online dating sites with the intention of meeting men, not just to gawk at photos and message back and forth. They want to MEET.

But that's when it gets hard. No matter how much you got a long on the phone or via dating site correspondence, meeting in person is different. It can be nerve wracking, it can be awkward, it can be weird. It can also be a lot of fun IF you know what you're doing. Most men do not.

Understand this: she's looking to you to calm things down, break the ice, dissipate the nervousness, build rapport and make her comfortable. Unfortunately most men do the opposite, and it's a bad date. Luckily, this is easy to do once you understand she expects you too.

The first thing you want to do is have a "safe" point of common conversation you can just start talking about. This can give you a few minutes of settling down, then you can transition to more fun things. While Dale Carnegie says you want to let the other person talk, in dating, there's a time and place for that, but it's not in the beginning. After you've both calmed down a bit, you want to have a few intriguing funny stories about topics she's interested in. I, for example, am into wine, so are the women I date, so I always start with that.

After you've made her laugh a bit, then you can follow Dale's advice and ask her about herself, but never forget she expects you to lead in the conversation. Women LOVE a man who have a lot of interesting things to talk about that involve things she's into, especially when it gives her an opportunity to contribute. They do not, however, like men who drone on and on about themselves, paying no attention to the woman in front of them.

How do you make yourself interesting when you feel you are not? Here's one secret, perhaps sad but true: you don't have to be all that interesting, you just have to be more interesting than the average guy she meets, and most of those guys are boring as hell.


They don't do anything but mindlessly surf their phones all day long, swiping left, swiping right on Tinder or Bumble, whiling away the hours. You don't want to be that guy. Instead you want to be the guy who reads. What should you read? Whatever interests you-history, wine, fiction, anything that activates your mind, anything that is a deeper read.

A "snackable" article on the internet is not a deep read. It's usually a dumb read. Instead, get a real, live book about something that interests you, read it cover to cover, then read another on that topic. Read enough to where you can teach a woman about it, and get excited doing so. Women love dating a man who can teach them things he is passionate about since they love that sort of male energy.

I recommend reading things women are into as well. Most women like wine, and when you read enough to be able to teach them about it, it leads to them drinking good wine with you, a new experience for most. It activates their minds, and when you activate a woman's mind, she becomes attracted to you.

Women want you to activate their minds with your conversation, and if you do that by following the above advice, you will have a successful date, and more successful dates after that. Then you might not date so much anymore because you have a girlfriend, even a relationship.


Here's Your Second Photo

I really hope you enjoyed your two photos and this article, I will have more photos and another great article for you tomorrow to help you with women and online dating!

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