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Hi, it's Julie!
It seems they are everywhere now- online dating apps. That's why John's new article is called "The Truth About Online Dating Apps," and it is a must read. Also, I have a new photo for you.
Here's Your First of Two Photos
I love her jeans and nails. But sometimes when you get a really glamorous photo online, it's a dating scam. Luckily, John has written a Kindle book all about dating scams called "Online Dating Scams Exposed." Like it or not, there are all kinds of nefarious characters out there scheming to part lovelorn men from their hard earned money, and they will use every trick they know to do it. But when you read John's book, you can foil them.
No one wants to think about getting scammed when you are browsing an online dating site, but it can and will happen. If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is, and that's why you should read John's book.
The good news is, you don't have own a Kindle to read it...Amazon will actually give you a free reading app you can use on your computer, smartphone, tablet, etc. to read any Kindle book. The link to download it is below:
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Enjoy, and stay tuned for tomorrow's photo, I think you'll really like her...
XOXO, Julie Young, Attraction Assistant to John Alanis
P.S. Be sure to scroll down so you can read John's newsletter update, The Truth About Online Dating Apps
The Truth About Online Dating Apps
It seems like they've come to rule the lives of single men and women. I'm talking about mobile dating applications like Tinder and Bumble and every other variation you can imagine. They beep and boop and flash and vibrate when someone "likes" you, and you immediately drop everything to check them because, you know, she could be the one.
Of course, like the last one, she isn't, just a momentary flash of pixels, then onto the next one, and the next one, and before you know it, you've gotten hundreds of like, and no dates. That may be fine for guys who live in Mom's basement, but for real men who want to meet real women, it's no good.
I am not personally a huge fan of mobile dating apps. Yeah, I've met some women, even dated a few for awhile, but I don't really like the format. That being said, they can be useful if used the right way. I personally prefer meeting women in person, and even online dating sites are ok, but that's my personal preference. There IS opportunity with mobile dating apps, and you can take advantage of it.
Before you do so, you don't want mobile dating apps to take advantage of you. For some reason, they are addictive, and it always seems like a more perfect woman is just one more swipe away. That's how they hook you, curiosity about what's next. Before you know it, you've swiped through hundreds of women, exchanged a few messages and wasted a few weeks. Use mobile dating apps as a tool, not entertainment- else you will be just another tool, swiping like a fool.
The first thing you want to do is move a woman you are interested in OFF the dating app so you'll have her phone number. Obviously texting is a way to do this, but it can be a trap. All you do is exchange a few messages and pics, and it's onto the next one. What you want to do is get her on the phone as soon as possible so you can meet her in person. In other words, you want to take online dating offline. So get her number, pick up the phone and call her. If you have a good time on the phone, call her again to be sure, then ask her to meet you. Then do it.
There is a certain momentum to attraction, women call it "sweeping me off my feet." There is a rush to it, and you have to move quickly, else the momentum is broken. That means meeting in person as quickly as possible, after you qualify her on the phone of course.
It should go without saying, but I'll say it anyways: when you meet a woman for a date, put away your phone. Don't keep it in front of you, don't check it every now and then, don't lay it face down on the table. Put it away, and ignore it while you're on the date. It is amazing how many guys don't do this- in fact, some guys even swipe left and right when they are on a date. Then they wonder why she doesn't want to see them again.
Mobile dating apps are not a world unto themselves. They are a new tool for meeting women you otherwise would not meet. Use them for this, not for entertainment. You want to get to the point where you never think about using them again because what do you know, you'd rather spend time with a real woman in the real world.
Used in this way, as a "lead generation too," mobile online dating apps CAN work. Women on them are on them to meet real men in person, not to chat back and forth. So meet them in person, and soon you can say goodbye to online dating for good.
Here's Your Second Photo
I really hope you enjoyed your two photos and this article, I will have more photos and another great article for you tomorrow to help you with women and online dating!
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