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Hi, it's Julie!
Ever wondered where you should go when you are on a date? That's why John's new article is called "Where To Go (and Not Go) On a Date," and it is a must read. Even better, I have a great new photo for you.
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Where To Go (and Not Go) On a Date
Where should you go on a date?
That's actually an important question, something most men don't really think about. They may think about browsing online dating profiles on an online dating site, or swiping left and right on Tinder, but they don't think about where they are going to go should they get a date.
This is a mistake. Where you meet a woman for a date can determine whether or not you see her again. First and foremost, you want a place where you can TALK, mostly uninterrupted, and in semi privacy. Meeting at a loud bar with blaring music is a bad idea because she can't hear you, and if she can't hear you, she won't be attracted.
Movies are a bad idea, clubs are a bad idea too. But a cool bar that has a booth where you can talk one on one is a great place, especially if you are into wine or other high end drinks. Even if you and she both like dive bars, you can drink a cheap beer and have a great time in semi private.
Dinner out on a first date can be too much. Waiters interrupt, the date lasts longer, it's more expensive, etc. But going out to a great restaurant on a second or third date after you have a feel for each other is a very good thing. So is staying in and cooking and drinking wine.
It's also not a bad idea to go someplace close to where you both live, so if you want to leave and spend more time with each other, it's an easy thing to do. You also want it to be a place where she is comfortable- some places can be uncomfortable, and that can end a date.
It may sound like a lot of work, but most guys don't succeed with women because they don't work. Before you start dating, start going to a lot of cool places by yourself. Go to cool coffee shops, go to cool bars, cool eateries, places you like so you can suggest them to a woman. And don't just go in and out, spend some time there and get a feel for the place. Order a few drinks, talk to the bartender or the wait staff, get to know a few people. That way when you meet a woman for a date, it will be in a place you feel comfortable, and that will make her comfortable too.
Also, if you get a second or third date, you want to have a variety of different places to take her. Variety is interesting to women, and women find an interesting man attractive. If all you do is go to the same place over and over, she'll quickly lose interest.
Even when you start dating and start having good dating success, you'll want to keep finding new places. That way you'll always be new, always be interesting, and you'll never be boring to women. One thing women cannot stand is a boring man, one thing they crave is an exciting man.
When you do this, something interesting will happen to you. YOU will become more interesting, not just to your friends, but to yourself too. Your world will expand, and you'll start discovering things you like that you had no idea you liked. If you don't get out in the world, you will never discover these things, and you won't be able to introduce women to them. Never forget women love a man who can show them new things, a man who can talk about a variety of different topics.
A good guideline to keep in mind is this: if you go somewhere she can hear your voice, that's great, if she can't, you won't succeed. Remember, women want to hear your voice, everything else just contributes to it. So come up with a list of places you know are great for dates, stick to those places, and you should do very well.
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I really hope you enjoyed your two photos and this article, I will have more photos and another great article for you tomorrow to help you with women and online dating!
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