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Here Are Today's TWO Photos and Your Newsletter Update-- Scroll Down Slowly To See All Our Great New Content
Hi, it's Julie!
I have some new photos and an article from John. It's called "What Are the Best Online Dating Free Sites and Services for Men?", and if you're a man on a budget who still wants to meet women, you definitely want to read this.
Here's Your First of Two Photos
Here's today's photo for our unusual experiment, I think you'll like her, she has a great smile and a blue hat. If you haven't done so, I highly suggest you check out all of John's books on Amazon Kindle, especially I love her jeans and nails. Of course his book about women and money is great too, and if you are a man looking for a successful relationship, his books are a must read. If you want to attract the right woman, you have to work at it.
Attraction is definitely a learnable skill, if you are motivated to learn it. So, without further ado, here's today's first photo to keep you motivated for online dating success with the women you really want.
The good news is, you don't have own a Kindle to read it...Amazon will actually give you a free reading app you can use on your computer, smartphone, tablet, etc. to read any Kindle book. The link to download it is below:
Download The Free Kindle Reader From Amazon
Buy Your Copy of Where to Meet Women, as well as How to Talk to Women
Enjoy, and stay tuned for tomorrow's photo, I think you'll really like her...
XOXO, Julie Young, Attraction Assistant to John Alanis
P.S. Be sure to scroll down so you can read John's newsletter update, What Are The Best Online Dating Free Sites And Services For Men?
What Are The Best Online Dating Free Sites And Services For Men?
If you missed Part 1 of this article, what are the free best online dating sites and services for men, I highly suggest you read it. We talked about the three best free online dating sites in the article and today we'll talk about the paid sites-- like I mentioned previously, it makes sense to be on both.
Understand that women who have paid to be on a dating site are much more serious about meeting a man in person-- after all, they voted with their wallet. Oftentimes women join a free dating site for the same reason men do-- they're bored and looking for a little safe, vicarious fun, but have little intention of ever meeting anyone in person (although they will make an exception if contacted correctly, as I describe in my article the truth about online dateing for men.
If you're looking for a relationship, even a wife or girlfriend, you'll have better results with paid online dating services such as match.com and eharmony.com
Both of these sites are very well established with not only mainstream acceptance BUT (and this very important) both spend a boatload of money on advertising to drive new visitors to their sites. Match and Eharmony are all over TV and all over the internet. As a direct response marketer myself, I can tell you, they are spending vast sums of money to constantly get new people to sign up, which is good for you.
The problem with other online dating sites is they don't have nearly the "churn" as Match and Eharmony. "Churn" is a direct marketing word for "turnover" and it is very, very important. An important factor in whether a woman will answer you back is "recency." In other words, the more recent she signed up, the more likely she is to respond to you because her interest in dating is at its height-- she just spent her own money to sign up, and she hasn't yet been beaten down by all the clueless morons on these sites.
Consider, for example, two women. One joined an online dating site yesterday, another joined one year ago. Who's more likely to respond? Obviously the one who joined yesterday, regardless of other factors. Both Match and Eharmony have a substantial amount women who joined "yesterday" as compared to lesser sites like Lavalife, the now defunct Matchmaker, etc. That's why these two sites are the best paid ones for you to start with, because they spend huge, observable amounts of money to swing recency in your favor.
So, if you put a profile on POF, one on Match.com and one on Eharmony.com you will have a huge, ever changing pool of women to choose from, women who are interested in meeting a man like you. Throw in Tinder on your smartphone, and you'll have to be careful not to go on too many dates with too many women too fast...and that's no joke.
Yes, I know you'd like to know all about free dating sites, but the point I want to get across in this article is you get what you pay for. If you're cheap about where to go to attract quality women, you're going to get what you pay for. And women don't like cheap men. Even if you are on a budget, skip lunch, eat ramen for dinner every now and then, work on your attraction skills, and invest the money to get on a quality dating site. It will be much less expensive in the end, and you won't waste time on a lot of bad dates.
Remember, there is a cost to your time, every second you spend on a bad date with a woman you're not attracted to is time you could be spending on multiple dates with a women you are attracted to. I'm a big believer in being cheap in the right places, but dating, women, and relationships is not the place for it. That's the place to invest.
Here's Your Second Photo
I really hope you enjoyed your two photos and this article, I will have more photos and another great article for you tomorrow to help you with women and online dating!
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